Anonymous
Close to ten years ago I had one of the purest experiences in making a decision which would impact my future in a way possibly no other decision might influence my life. I was 20 years old and my IUD had failed in its job to prevent my becoming pregnant.
My decision was not difficult. I pictured my life, my future as a single parent, seeking public assistance, medical coupons, delaying my degree, quitting my job.
But the most significant factor in my decision was anticipating giving birth to a child I did not want. I was not prepared either economically or emotionally, and I recognized that this child would surely know the impact s/he had made on my life and happiness.
Having been raised in a family with the knowledge that I was an “accident,” and “was not expected,” and possibly ruined my parents’ relationship and their individual lives was knowledge enough for me. I resolved that I would try – never to do such a thing to a child of my own.
So, it was simple, clear-minded, and personal decision to have an abortion. A decision based on my own individual experience and circumstances at the time. I have never regretted this decision.
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